The first step in the ordination process is discernment of the ministry to which God calls a person: layperson, deacon, or priest. The Commission on Ministry (COM), a diocesan body that helps in the discernment of ministry, has written a document about discernment, Guidelines for the Discernment of Ministry in the Diocese of Hawai‘i. Additional information about discernment can be found on the "Discernment for Ministry" page (under What We Do > Lay Formation).

These Guidelines start off with the following statement: